The "Secret Sauce" of John Gottman's Relationship Therapy

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Marriage psychologist says one sign can predict divorce with '94% accuracy'

23 years together and counting. ❤️ John Gottman is a clinical psychologist who can supposedly predict with 90% accuracy which couples will end in divorce. He says it is the presence of criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling - what he calls the Four Horsemen - that are markers of failing relationships. They should be replaced instead with healthy communication patterns like using “I” statements, showing appreciation and taking responsibility. While Kev and I have elements of the Fou

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, PhD, Nan Silver: 9780553447712 | PenguinRandomHouse.com: Books

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